What Can I Expect From Marriage?

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Well, As You probably guessed, The Statement above was made by a single girl, the statement to the left, by someone who is married.
What you may not realize is that both statement where made by the same person.
What went wrong? If you look forward to getting married someday. how can you prevent a romantic dream from turning into a troublesome marriage?.
These are what you will have to consider.


Fact Of Life: Much of you happiness in marriage depends on what you expect from it.
What can you realistically expect from marriage? In short you can.
Expect benefits
Expect Challenges
Expect The Unexpected
Let's take a close look at each one these.

EXPECT BENEFITS

• Companionships
• Partnership
• Intimacy
• The Bottom line: Marriage is said to be a Gift from God.
• To Think About: If your view of marriage sourced by poor examples that you have observed, Perhaps in your own family? if so that positive role models can you look to that are worthy of imitation?

EXPECT CHALLENGES

• Conflict
• Disappointment
• Anxiety
• The Bottom Line: If dating were to be like flying a kite, marriage is like piloting a plane. You will considerably more skill and effort to deal with turbulent challenges but you can succeed.
• To Think About: How do you possibly handle conflict now with your parents and siblings? Are you able to put disappointments in perspective? How do you deal with anxiety.

This is just the part 1 of " What Can I Expect from Marriage?';

I know many of us have know much about this or even go more into details than others, but possibly if we can do more we will expect more.. Happy Sunday.